Questions to Ask Your Friends to See How Much They Know You
It’s not always easy to find true pals. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of daily life and forget how vital the connections we form are.
Slow down and take a moment to examine your friendships, understand abot the people in your life, and see just how much they’ve learned about you. If you found out that your pals have been paying more attention to you than you have been giving them, you could be astonished.
If not, these questions are a fantastic place to begin a conversation and build new partnerships.
Here are ten questions to test how much your friends know about you:
Questions to Ask Your Friend When Bored to See If They Know You
1. What was my childhood like for me?
This sounds like a no-brainer to me. It is essential to keep in mind, however, that one’s upbringing has an impact on them in a manner that is unique to them.
Have you told your pal about your childhood and how you were raised? Have they given it to you in their own words? The history of a person is a crucial piece of the puzzle when trying to piece together how they developed into the person they are now.
It’s possible that you’ve made hints about things that have been bothering you since childhood, but you haven’t realised that they’ve picked up on those hints yet.
It’s possible that both of you have come to the conclusion that you don’t always bring up the past. In any case, an excellent question to start a conversation with your buddies!
2. Who was my first crush?
You may think this is a ridiculous inquiry, but it’s really a little step toward reopening the door to your heart. Having a first crush is a great way to spend time with someone new and exciting. It’s quite likely that you’ve just mentioned it a few times and then entirely forgot about it. How attentive have they been to the pranks they’ve been participating in?
3. What are my current hobbies?
If you’re looking for a new buddy because you both like the same things, you’re not alone. Do they have a complete picture of your interests? Is it something they’re interested in? If so, do they know about your non-work-related interests and pastimes?
When you have friends who are willing to listen to you go on about the things you like doing, you’ll see how much they appreciate talking to you about topics that aren’t only interesting to you.
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4. What is my go-to karaoke song?
There are, of course, a variety of different kinds of buddies. Those friends with whom you have more in-depth chats, those friends with whom you love going out to parties, and finally those friends with whom you can pretty much do everything. Who is familiar with your go-to song for karaoke?
Let’s be honest, the song we choose to sing at karaoke tells a lot about both of us without the need for us to say very much at all. They undoubtedly know you better than you know yourself if they are aware of your favourite music to perform while you are on stage and can name it.
5. Is there something I would change about myself? If so, what would it be and why?
You should really delve deep into how well they know you as a person as the questions go from the more lighthearted and entertaining ones to the more serious ones. Do you think it’s possible that you would desire to alter some aspect of who you are?
A friend who is familiar with you is able to listen carefully and understand what is being said even when it is not explicitly stated because they have developed the ability to “read between the lines.”
They are able to observe your emotions and interpret your body language to determine the aspects of yourself with which you are satisfied and those with which you are dissatisfied.
6. If I could have one day with anyone living or dead, who would it be?
Oh, the age-old question of “who would I most like to have dinner with, if anybody in the world?” Another question that could seem to be elementary, but there is a strong possibility that it goes far beyond than that.
Perhaps they are aware that you have a want to communicate with a deceased loved one, or perhaps they are aware that you have a desire to pick the brain of a well-known artist.
You might have a lot of fun playing off of one other’s responses to this thought-provoking subject.
Did they realise that you would have chosen this particular individual if given the choice? What have you discussed in the past that might have been relevant to determining how they responded?
7. What scares me the most?
There are many ways that life may be frightening—superstitious, emotional, or even a jump-out-of-your-seat type of frightening.
What frightens you the most out of all the possibilities? A buddy who knows you well will be able to tell what you’re privately terrified of, but you won’t say anything about it.
When you need someone to lean on, these are the people you want by your side because they understand how much it means to you.
8. Where have I felt lacking in my life?
We often experience feelings of disappointment in our own abilities (or in certain parts of our lives). With our behaviour and reactions to this region, others may tell that we’re dissatisfied even if we don’t say so.
Make sure they’re paying attention to the things that make you upset by asking this inquiry. It’s also a good way to determine whether they pay attention to you when you voice doubts and rant about the problems in your life.
9. When no one else is around, what do I do?
Right? How could anybody possible know what you were doing if no one else was around? That isn’t always the case, though.
Friends are able to detect the presence of loneliness in one another by noticing little behaviours that they share.
If you have a friend who knows you well, he or she will pay attention to how you interact with others, what makes you feel at ease, and how you two interact when you are alone. You may get a good sense of someone’s personality just by looking at them.
10. What is one time that I genuinely felt great about myself?
You may not have expected him to participate in comparable activities to yours now that he’s a father. Even while it’s hard to imagine now, the reality is he was once a child, too, with his own set of favourite books and movies. Watch or read a movie or book he enjoyed after his response to your query. This gives you a chance to see how he thinks and to compare your own preferences to his.
When it comes to fathers, they have a knack for storytelling. You need to keep this in mind when he answers your queries. Despite this, it’s possible to learn a lot about his character from his tendency to avoid telling the truth. On the bright side, if you learn to accept him as he actually is, you may find yourself like him more.