“Can you help me with…?” (Make them feel important) Instead of barking orders, turn it into a teamwork mission! “Let’s count to three: 1, 2…” (Give a gentle warning) This gives them a heads-up to change their behavior before a consequence. “Whoa! That can hurt! Let’s find a gentler way.” (Focus on safety and offer…… Continue reading 10 phrases to use when your toddler doesn ‘t listen